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Keeping the Spark Alive While Planning Your Wedding: No Wedding Talk Date Night

It’s easy to get caught up in the wedding planning process and forget about your relationship.

After all, you’re busy trying to make sure everything is perfect for the big day!

But it’s important to remember that your relationship is the most important thing, and you need to keep the spark alive.

So go ahead and plan your dream wedding, but don’t forget to keep the spark alive! It’s the most important thing of all.

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Here are five ways to keep the spark alive while planning your wedding!

1. Keep the communication lines open

It's important to communicate with your partner about your wants and needs, especially when it comes to your wedding. Whether you're planning every detail together or taking a more hands-off approach, regular communication will help keep the spark alive and prevent any misunderstandings.

2. Be spontaneous

While wedding planning can be stressful, it's important to make time for fun and romance. Plan some spontaneous date nights or weekends away, and don't forget to keep the sex life alive!

3. Delegate tasks

Trying to do everything yourself will only lead to burnout. Delegate tasks to friends and family members, or hire a wedding planner to take care of the nitty-gritty details. This will free up your time so you can focus on enjoying the process.

4. Take breaks

It's important to take a break from wedding planning every now and then. Go on a romantic getaway, take some time for yourself, or just enjoy a night in with your partner. This will help you stay sane and keep the spark alive.

5. Don't forget why you're getting married

In the midst of all the planning, it's easy to forget why you're getting married in the first place. Take time to reflect on your relationship and what this wedding means to you. This will help you stay focused and excited for the big day.

My absolute favourite suggestion is to have a “no wedding talk” date night.

Once a week, turn off your phone, put away the wedding planning books, and just focus on each other. Talk about anything and everything else! This will help you remember why you’re getting married in the first place.

Here are seven tips on making no wedding talk date night work for you.

  1. Schedule a weekly “no wedding talk” date night where you can focus on each other instead of the wedding.

  2. Try to come up with fun and different things to do each week, so you don’t get bored - what did you do before you started wedding planning?

  3. Keep communication open and honest - tell your partner if you’re feeling overwhelmed or need a break from wedding talk and book your no wedding talk date night now.

  4. Do something fun and different on your no wedding talk date nights - go for a walk, play a game, or watch a movie.

  5. Remember that the goal is to have fun and enjoy each other’s company!

  6. Take turns planning date nights, so there is always something to look forward to!

  7. Enjoy the ride! Planning your wedding should be an enjoyable experience - don’t let the stress get to you! These date nights will help you keep things in perspective and appreciate each other even more.

Planning your wedding can be stressful, but it’s important to remember the most important thing: your relationship.

Keep the spark alive by scheduling regular “no wedding talk” date nights where you can focus on each other.

By doing this, you’ll remember why you’re getting married in the first place and enjoy the planning process even more!

So there you have it, five tips on keeping the spark alive while planning your wedding and seven tips on making no wedding talk date night work for you!

No matter how busy you are, make time for each other and enjoy this special time in your lives!

What are your top tips to keep the relationship strong while wedding planning? Share them in the comments below!

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